Thursday, August 14, 2008

The 3 Guys You Should Date Before Your Life is Over

OK the question that's been on every girls mind since earth was created. When is it time to settle down? Everyone has a different age in their life where something just clicks, others just get pregnant and have to deal with it lol buuuuuttttttttttt before anyone ever forcefully puts themselves in that type of situation you should take into consideration the three boys that should be in your life before its over.




Disclaimer, obviously since it is suggested that you date these types of guys, 2 out of the three have to end badly in order to complete the process.


#1 The Nice Guy

Why you should date him: He'll show you how your supposed to be treated. He keeps Chivalry alive and treats you like a princess, not one of the boys. The lessons you'll get from dating him is self worth. He'll never treat you below par and you should always take those standards with you.

Why it might not work out: Life isn't always sunshine and roses, sometimes conflicts are needed to make life interesting and often how you react in those situations shows exactly how much you care about that person. A guy who is always perfect never gives you that opportunity and after a while perfection might be wearing.

#2 The Intellectual

Why you should date him: Competition. This guy strives for the straight A's and is an overachiever. If you date this persona his need for succeed will rub off on you and in turn make you successful as well.

Why it might not work: Competition. Life would always be a competition. Who got better grades, who is more involved, who is over all smarter. If you are always competing, how can you be at ease with each other or even share opinions? Even though this relationship might be destined for failure, hopefully you take with you the importance of success that he has shown you and you use that knowledge to your advantage in your academic life and at work.

#3 The Free Spirit

Why you should date him: After being bombarded with chocolates, roses, and straight A's you need to be exposed to a different part of life that you would not venture through on regular terms. He will show you things, a new way to look at the world that will open your eyes.

Why it might not work: Free spirits tend to not have very stable incomes, its not fun to be in love and starving, unless you are madly, deeply, truly in love. But chances are you will get impatient and either nag him to get a job which in turn will make him lose his free spirit and he'll resent u forever... not fun lol


Well there you have it, before you settle down give everyone a chance, do not try to label them. But if your interested in different types of people that might better you as a person, these guys would be the top three. Now hopefully you'll find someone who embodies these three personas and become a better person in one shot but we'll see what happens lol

-Love

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